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Just for the record, ladydyke, I am bi.

Best of both worlds.

I have a friend who's bi and clueless. She also lives in France, but that's beside the point. Anyway, I don't have a problem with her being bi. What drives me nuts is this chick is married, and cheats on her husband with any chick she can get her hands on. I don't care if you're straight, gay, or bi, but if you're permanently with someone I don't think you oughtta run around screwing other ppl regardless of what sex they are. Of course straight ppl don't seem particularly faithful either. I really don't get why everyone screws around so much though. At least I had the sense not to marry anyone I felt the urge to screw around on. Wouldn't it be neat if all the asshole guys out there were like that too? *wanders off muttering*

Well if she really wants to have sex with women, I'm sure her husband would be fine to be in bed with two chicks(that is, unless she and her husband despise each other). A bi girl is all the better, I say.

Cheating, by definition, is anything against the "rules." Running around with other people is only cheating if it's against the rules a couple sets up for themselves. If their rules include her being with other women, then it's not cheating. If they don't, she's scum.

Well, she says he says it's ok for her to screw other women, but I don't think he really thinks it's ok, cuz he's not screwing HER anymore. Which is another thing that annoys me...ppl that pretend something is ok and then get pissed off when you do it anyway.

Ah well, he's got no one to blame but himself then.

I'm confused, but I know I'd like to marry a bisexual chick who sleeps around(I'll just tell her to pile the girls on in).

I think relationships are best when the parties are not each other's exclusive object of focus. But that is not necessarily the same thing as approval of "sleeping around".

Theoretically, bi should mean you get twice as many dates. In practice, it only means you get lots of offers for threesomes and "open" relationships. That's fine if you like that sort of thing, but I tried dating a "polyamorous" girlfriend a while back and that's not for me. Sex is not a hobby.

Exactly. You shouldn't be 100% obsessed with your partner, but your other sources of focus should be something like painting or video games or long vacations in Switzerland or something, not screwing everyone else in existence. If I was married I'd expect to have friends of both genders to hang out with when I felt like it, but I wouldn't take it any farther than being good friends. What pisses me off though is that most guys I've been with would be perfectly happy if I had no other male friends, and yet they wanna hang out with all the chicks. They always assume I'm screwing my other male friends, or want to, whether I am or not, and then they wonder why I doubt THEIR faithfulness. Actually I've never been cheated on and we never knew that many chicks to hang out with, but most men are too damn jealous for their own good.

Most MEN are too jealous???

I don't know, B-Dream, are you going to choose one sex or another for life partner and forever abandon sex with the other sex therefore?