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Butterfly Dream you are gay? What happened to make you so happy?

I didn't know there was a cowboy.

Just for the record, ladydyke, I am bi.

Best of both worlds.

I have a friend who's bi and clueless. She also lives in France, but that's beside the point. Anyway, I don't have a problem with her being bi. What drives me nuts is this chick is married, and cheats on her husband with any chick she can get her hands on. I don't care if you're straight, gay, or bi, but if you're permanently with someone I don't think you oughtta run around screwing other ppl regardless of what sex they are. Of course straight ppl don't seem particularly faithful either. I really don't get why everyone screws around so much though. At least I had the sense not to marry anyone I felt the urge to screw around on. Wouldn't it be neat if all the asshole guys out there were like that too? *wanders off muttering*

Well if she really wants to have sex with women, I'm sure her husband would be fine to be in bed with two chicks(that is, unless she and her husband despise each other). A bi girl is all the better, I say.

Cheating, by definition, is anything against the "rules." Running around with other people is only cheating if it's against the rules a couple sets up for themselves. If their rules include her being with other women, then it's not cheating. If they don't, she's scum.

Well, she says he says it's ok for her to screw other women, but I don't think he really thinks it's ok, cuz he's not screwing HER anymore. Which is another thing that annoys me...ppl that pretend something is ok and then get pissed off when you do it anyway.

Ah well, he's got no one to blame but himself then.

I'm confused, but I know I'd like to marry a bisexual chick who sleeps around(I'll just tell her to pile the girls on in).

I think relationships are best when the parties are not each other's exclusive object of focus. But that is not necessarily the same thing as approval of "sleeping around".

Theoretically, bi should mean you get twice as many dates. In practice, it only means you get lots of offers for threesomes and "open" relationships. That's fine if you like that sort of thing, but I tried dating a "polyamorous" girlfriend a while back and that's not for me. Sex is not a hobby.